If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
~ Oprah Winfrey ~
Work & lifeI've been working for over 2 weeks now , currently in a trust company called Alpadis Trust . Working here is fine , awfully quiet but i guess that's how a real office is. Workmates ? totally great people. My superior is a nice lady by the name of Michelle, shes really really nice and sweet . well ,thats all about work :p
I'm currently at work now and why am i on Blogger ? Because Catherine said "DO YOUR WORK SLOWLY" , am i doing it too fast ? probably i am , so might as well waste some time on my lovely Blog that i haven't updated for far too long. My english needs help too , i probably can't speak and write english properly anymore. Poor thing , i need to add "Buy more books" on my checklist for March 2016, well obviously putting "READ MORE BOOKS" on my 2016 Checklist ..
I really hope i can read more books, since Mikayla is growing up so fast ! little muffins in 9 months old now and shes crawling really fast now and she's slowly learning how to walk (with help from bed/sofa/me)
Talking about Mikayla , 3 more months and she turns 1 ! oh wow ! feels really fast , it feels like as if i just held her in my arm yesterday for the first time . :') time goes by really fast when you're in love . hahahhahaha ! I'm selfish because i don't want her to grow up so fast . i still want to cuddle with her when its sleeping time :( im the one with the separation issues . hahahaha
Well , i need to continue doing my "work" , i'll try and update this everyday when my Boss is not around. He sits behind me and he can see my screen from where he is sitting . AHAHAH , not appropriate to be doing other things besides work right .